Ten Commandments for the New Year

Like millions of other Americans, I tend to think of a new year as a fresh start—a time to set goals or resolutions that, when accomplished, will help make me slimmer, healthier, more well-read, a better dog owner, a reliable volunteer in my community, or countless other personal milestones.

But essentially, when I make those resolutions, I’m really simply trying to list ways I can be a better person. And being a better person begins with some fundamentals.

Last week I happened to come across this short piece in an old issue of The Christian Advocate magazine, and it seemed to crystallize all the reasons—and all the outcomes—I’m seeking to accomplish when I make my new year’s resolutions.

While my typical resolutions often focus on the external—my health, my hobbies, or my schedule—Philip L. Frick’s “Ten Commandments” remind me that a truly “fresh start” is an internal journey.

If I really want to improve myself, I need to do more than just check off a list of goals or develop a new habit or two; I need to always keep a higher purpose in mind as the basis for everything I do.

Maybe not all of Mr. Frick’s Ten Commandments will resonate with you, but perhaps at least one or two will speak to your heart as we step into 2026 together.

For me, these simple guidelines are a reminder that the best version of myself isn’t found in a gym membership or a reading challenge—it’s found in the everyday choices I make to put God first and love others well.

Here’s to a year of real transformation, one small step at a time!

Resolutions, Anyone?

The new year is almost here and for many people that means adopting new year’s resolutions.

Calendar Page ResolutionI’ve never been much for making resolutions at the beginning of the year, but I understand the lure. A new year means new opportunities and a new slate on which we can write the stories of our lives. People use it as a time to set goals and resolve to make a real change in their lives.

The reason I don’t do new year’s resolutions is that I set goals all the time. Every day, every week, every month I know what I need to accomplish in order to achieve what I want. From time to time my goals may change, and I roll with the punches, but my discipline is still the same.

Some days I’m more successful at checking a task off my list than other days. Some days I abandon my goals in favor of binge-watching Hallmark Channel movies with a half-gallon of Haagen Dazs. But those indulgent days are few, and they’re only temporary set-backs. The next day I’m right back at my to do list, anxious to check off the next goal I want to accomplish.

So here are a couple of my personal goals for the month of January:

  1. By January 15 identify the birth date of my great-grandfather so I can order a copy of his birth certificate and document it in on my family tree
  2. Over the next ten days, write a minimum of 250 words a day on my new book

Easy-peasy, right? They sound so do-able. And I have every confidence I can get these things (and a few others) done. As long as I don’t get distracted by the Hallmark Channel and ice cream.